Change is in the air... A new season. Novel opportunities. Steadfast resolve.

The excitement for summer and autumn activities and scheduled events has ended (atleast until the woes of the Christmas season). The leaves have transformed, and the grass has stopped growing. Those dreaded (at least in my world) winter coats, hats, and gloves are now easily accessible. The splendor of the fall colours has come and gone, leaving behind some memorable moments and photos. Nights are chilly, and frost has made its unwelcome appearance on the ground during my morning walk to work. However, there is something different for me. Not only am I aware of these changes, but I also appreciate the changing season. My eyes seem to be open to the beauty that surrounds me.

As the new season begins, I find myself wrapped in the comforting embrace of sobriety. It's a period of change, of letting go of the old and embracing fresh starts. The shift in seasons reminds me that even as the world around us changes, the core of sobriety continues to advance this year.

With each passing day, I am presented with myriad opportunities to reaffirm my commitment to living a sober life, a journey that is both transformative and deeply personal. The challenges I encounter may vary widely, ranging from social situations that tempt me (obsession has been lifted) to revert to old habits, to moments of stress and emotional turbulence that can make the path feel daunting. Yet, through it all, my unwavering resolve to stay true to myself and my journey remains steadfast and resolute. I understand that sobriety is not merely the absence of substances; it is an active choice I make every day, a conscious decision to embrace a lifestyle that fosters growth, health, and authenticity.

St. Joseph's Oratory of Mount Royal, Montreal

In the midst of constant change and the unpredictability of life, sobriety acts as my anchor, providing stability and a sense of security that I once thought was unattainable. It grounds me in the present moment, allowing me to fully engage with my surroundings, my thoughts, and my feelings without the fog of substances clouding my judgment. This clarity is invaluable; it opens my eyes to the beauty of everyday experiences and deepens my connections with others. Each moment I choose sobriety reinforces my commitment to a future filled with purpose, where I can pursue my passions and dreams without the constraints of addiction. Moreover, this journey is not just about resisting temptation; it is about cultivating a deeper understanding of myself. I have begun to explore the underlying issues that contributed to my previous reliance on substances, engaging in reflection and self-discovery that enrich my life in ways I never imagined possible. By confronting these challenges head-on, I am not only healing but also building resilience that empowers me to navigate life’s complexities with grace and strength.

As I continue to walk this path, I find solace in the support of a community that shares similar values and experiences. Together, we celebrate milestones, share our struggles, and uplift one another, creating a network of encouragement that bolsters my resolve. Each day, I remind myself that the journey of sobriety is not a solitary one; it is a collective endeavor that thrives on connection, understanding, and shared experiences. My commitment to this lifestyle is a profound aspect of my life that shapes my identity and influences my choices. It is a daily practice of mindfulness and intention, guiding me toward a future filled with clarity, purpose, and the promise of a fulfilling life.

Although I value anonymity, I am completely transparent about my past, present, and aspirations for the future. As Plato wrote, "We are twice armed if we fight with faith." It is this faith that will lead me forward. I may not focus on what others do or say, or fail to do or say, but I cannot let these actions or inactions concern me. I can only be myself. Simply be JEM.